This is a totally non-housing related post.
What price do you put on freedom? I just discovered that it can be quite a bit. Why? A relative of my fiancee' had given her a gift of cash in the past and was holding it over her (and my) head(s). In an argument tonight (it is 3am, just finished), we finally asked "how much?"
I just wrote the third largest check of my life to buy out of an "obligation."
The largest was a down payment on a house (sold pre-bubble... damn! At a small loss too.) :(
The second was to buy my BMW, cash on the barrel. :) 145k miles later, I'm happy with it. (but warning, the maintenance is too much. But I will keep it another 100k engine/transmission willing. FUN car.)
The third was tonight. Ended the argument and dis-invited the person from the wedding (they were making a fuss over new guests we "had to fit in to the wedding.") Ok, funny, the spouse (+ "guest") is still invited (love the spouse... yea.. life throws curve balls...) , so the person will still be there. But under our terms. ;)
Make no doubt, there was a debt of gratitude owed. The person had been generous. Now paid in full. Every red cent. Ok, I have to scramble to the bank tomorrow to make sure no wedding checks bounce, but all is ok. Did I mention I'm a saver. ;)
Did I have to pay the person? No. Not even when my fiancee' asked me to whip out a check. (We had been paying wedding vendors all day... Due to a trip, I was behind paying my share, so it was time for me to pay for everything at most of the vendor "finals". Can we say OUCH!).
So somewhere someone is going to stimulate the economy whom has no belief in a housing bubble. Even then, I feel better. (I Can't believe it, it takes me weeks to work up to spending $500, normally.)
Bedtime is now coming (had to wind down). Its sort of fun knowing I've rewritten the rules. We left noting, its a new day.
I cannot ever tell you who I bought out.
They say a wedding is a new start. For us, in more than one way, it truly will be.
Neil
ps
Six days to go until the wedding! Expect one more post and then nothing until mid-June. (We're doing a proper honeymoon.)